Confessions of An Accidental Co-Sleeper

Some how it has happened. We went from being anti co-sleepers to occasional co-sleepers to it becoming more regular occurrence. How did this happen?  We (me) did all of the research prior to Conor’s arrival, and our plan was to make sure we establish a firm routine of him sleeping in the bassinet.  We started off great, but then as his voracious appetite grew and his love of cuddles increased… the little man has found his way into our bed more regularly.

In an effort to share the “overnight” duties, we have Conor’s bassinet set up in the spare room rather than in the nursery or our primary bedroom.  It allows him to sleep in the same room as us in his bassinet, as recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics and just about every other source out there. Our routine has been to alternate who is sleeping in the spare room so that they other can enjoy an evening of undisturbed sleep. I have returned to work, so Sunday to Thursday R takes the night shift and I take over Friday and Saturday night. It has been working very well.. except for the fact that the bassinet is getting less use than we intended.

Here is a list that wrote regarding the pros and cons of co-sleeping

We notice that Conor has a longer, less interrupted sleep when he is with one of us and it is much easier to feed him and get him back to sleep when we co-sleep.  There is also a bit of selfishness on my part.. I love the baby cuddles.  We take all of the precautions, he doesn’t sleep under covers, he is on a flat surface away from pillows and every other “no no” that is on the list now for baby sleeping. R is already worried about how we will get him to transition to a crib if we are already starting this routine. That being said, Conor co-slept with R last night. So obviously necessity outweighs practicality sometimes. We aren’t able to co-sleep with him in our communal bed.. we co-sleep with 4 dogs. Maybe this was a foreshadow of what was to come. lol

So our goal this week.. become more diligent in putting Conor to sleep in his own bed. Let’s see how long that lasts.

Thoughts on co-sleeping? Would love to hear them..


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One thought on “Confessions of An Accidental Co-Sleeper

  1. Hi Michael and Rob.
    A very good friend of mine who also worked at Faneil. She is a single mom to a sweet little boy. She decided to have a baby on her own and as you know when baby is hungry or needs to be changed it needs to get done. There were days when she was so tired she just had to close her eyes for a few minutes. Well those few minutes of just snuggling her sweet boy turned into months. She loved every minute of it. But then she got concerned when it was getting to that year mark when she had to return to work. She was worried that he would not sleep on his own in his crib that he never slept in. After a few nights of very little crying and fussing he fell asleep in his crib. He hardly ever sleeps with her now and she misses the snuggles. She was so glad she didn’t listen to all the nah sayers and coslept with him. They grow up so fast, enjoy your bed time snuggles.

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